Unlearning negative mindsets

Do you ever feel sad or down because of something someone else has said about you or done to you? Do you allow that to hang around and affect your mood for the day or even longer? If so, then you are allowing someone else to hold the key to your happiness. Of course it is hurtful when you hear someone talking about you in a negative light. And it is sometimes heartbreaking when you go through trauma where someone has done something to you that you didn’t ask for. But, if we stay there in that pain and allow it to affect the way we view or treat others, then we have relinquished control of our happiness to someone or something other than ourselves. It is really easy to do, I have done it a million times. Being in control of your own happiness is easier said than done when you are hurting. It is a daily struggle that I found takes daily, conscious effort to get in the right mindset. The mindset that no matter what comes my way I am going to find good in it. The mindset that I am worthy and I am loved no matter what anyone else may say about me. Start today, fresh, renewing your mindset and taking control of your own happiness. You’ve got this!

It’s important that you hone in on the skill of trusting yourself and your gut instincts. That small voice in the back of your head that tells you not to do something. Listen to your intuition and trust that it would not misguide or mislead you. It takes practice and repetition, and seeing the proof in what happens when you don’t listen to your gut. I invite you today to begin practicing the art of trusting yourself. You’ll be glad you did.

The art of being uniquely you takes time and starts with knowing exactly who you are. Who are you at your core? What makes your heart sing? What sets your soul on fire? Discovering your unique identity is a complex and rewarding process that requires deep soul searching. Take the time to explore what brings you joy and contentment, what inspires you, and what drives you forward. Consider the experiences that have shaped you, the people who have influenced you, and the goals that you aspire to achieve. By delving into your true self, you can unlock your full potential and live a life that is authentic, fulfilling, and meaningful.

There are no two journeys that are the same. No matter how similar your circumstances are, no two paths are exactly alike. Influenced by life experiences, backgrounds and upbringings, and decisions made alone can cause your situation to be inherently different. Don’t compare your journey to anyone else’s, run your own race and forge your own path. You were given this life because you are uniquely you.

Have you been overworking yourself or filling every single moment with something? Do you need a little relaxation? Kick up your heels and enjoy the view. It doesn’t have to be the strip of Las Vegas to enjoy the view. What is your happy place, your tranquil place, your place of relaxation? Go there and kick up your heels! If you’d like to kick up these particular heels, or others that make you feel a little bit sexy, look no further than these links on Amazon to grab yourself a pair! https://amzn.to/4bqIoFV https://amzn.to/4dJQStt https://amzn.to/3QV1E6u https://amzn.to/3KclypL

I have created a 365-Day Journal Prompt book to coincide with my recently published book Finding Your Truest You!

The prompts can begin as soon as you receive the book, or on a specific holiday or you can wait til January.

It will cover topics addressed in my book like Authenticity, Healing, Spirituality, and Self-Love.

There is no right or wrong way to use the journal. Write every day or when the spirit leads you.

May these reflections bring you closer to peace, to purpose, and most of all, to Finding Your Truest You!https://www.facebook.com/share/v/17LzSbZiwx/