What if being vulnerable was your superpower? What if it’s the thing that ignites you and gives you the most strength? Sharing a piece of yourself to help someone else, opening up so that the real you can be seen. Shining a light on how you rose from the darkness. Showing the world that beauty can truly rise from ashes. Being vulnerable is not a curse; it’s a blessing. What if it were your superpower? What makes you a superhero and what is your power?
False Evidence Appearing Real
Sometimes fear comes from things that are only conjured up in our mind. The debilitating feeling when you approach something unknown and cannot control the outcome. The paralyzing thoughts of an expectation that cannot be met. Luke 12:32 tells us to “Fear Not”. The Lord tells us 365 times in the Bible to not be afraid. One for every single day of the year!
A fear of heights is our lack of control of what happens when we are in high places. Our false evidence that says we are going to fall if we are up high.
A fear of spiders or snakes or other things similar is our lack of control of the unknown of that creature. Will we get bitten? Will we get sick and die afterwards.
A fear of being alone is our lack of control of whether or not other people will stay in our lives or if they will leave.
In many cases fear is caused by our lack of control of things. In those instances we have a choice…
Forget Everything and Run or
Face Everything and RiseFear isn’t logical. The anxiety that fear creates isn’t logical, but that doesn’t mean it’s nonexistent. How do you conquer your fears? Comment below… #fear #fearnot #fearisaliar #facefear #facefears #benotafraid #donotfear #donotbeafraid #nofear #nomorefear #conquerfear #conqueryourfears #iamnotafraid
I’ve been a bit tied up the past few months with so many exciting things, and I can’t wait to share it all with you! Out with 2024 and in with 2025. It’s going to be a great year! Hey, what have you been tied up with these days?
Have you recently gone through a difficult divorce? Are you still grieving that lost friend or family member? Did you just get a tough medical diagnosis? Have you recently had to move away from the only home you have known for years? There are so many times in our lives where we must be brave for ourselves or even for other people. Do you put on a brave face when you are dying inside? It is very easy to do. Sometimes we do it because we don’t want anyone to know our real stories. At the end of the day, we may only be hurting ourselves by keeping it all inside. If you want encouragement from 8 very brave women who have lived to tell their stories, check out this book in the Lightbeamer Series. https://amzn.to/3UJ8UV4
Do you need to remove your shades or do you simply need to open your eyes to certain things? Maybe you need to open your eyes to the beauty that is around you. But maybe you need to open your eyes to how someone may be treating you. Maybe you need to take the glasses aka blinders off. I think sometimes we choose to keep our eyes hidden for fear that we will see something that we suspected all along. A natural trauma response to avoid dealing with certain things is to simply act as though it doesn’t exist. If it doesn’t exist, it won’t be real and maybe the pain won’t be there. In order to get past the pain, sometimes we need to take the blinders off and face reality. Facing our situations head on, although likely uncomfortable, will allow us to move on past the trauma or thing you are hiding from. What do you need to open your eyes to today?
I talk a lot about learning that my vulnerability is a super power over the past five years. One thing I still get hung up on is when/how to be vulnerable at work.
According to Culture Works HR, 60% of Americans struggle to maintain a healthy balance between their professional and personal lives.
Quora says that vulnerability is natural and should be embedded within any company’s culture. “It creates trust and promotes acceptance and empathy when giving and receiving feedback. It also helps with effective problem solving and decision making.”
According to Toner Buzz, 85% of companies that offer work-life balance programs report an increase in productivity, while 33% of employees with a good balance say they plan to stay longer in their current role.
The fear of making connections and being vulnerable can stem from various sources, such as past traumatic experiences, fear of rejection or abandonment, low self esteem, or a lack of trust in others. This is true whether in your personal or professional life.
So how can you change that?
-Focus on building self awareness;
-Practice active listening;
-Share your thoughts and feelings appropriately;
Do you have a difficult time being vulnerable? Try a few of these to help get you started.
In my journey as a Self Discovery Speaker and Author at Resilient, I’ve witnessed the profound transformation that occurs when individuals embrace the journey of self-discovery. It’s not merely about finding oneself; it’s about delving deep into the core of who they are and uncovering the essence of true identity. Join me as I explore the empowering process of self-discovery and its ability to illuminate the path toward personal growth and fulfillment.
Embracing Authenticity
Authenticity serves as the cornerstone of self-discovery. It involves peeling away the layers of societal expectations and external influences to reveal the authentic self that lies beneath. Embracing my own true authenticity has been liberating, allowing me to honor my unique qualities, quirks, and passions without reservation.
Navigating Life’s Challenges
The journey of self-discovery is not without its challenges. During my journey, I encountered obstacles and setbacks, testing my resilience. However, these challenges served as opportunities for growth and introspection. By confronting adversity head-on, I was able to cultivate a deeper understanding of myself and emerge stronger than ever before.
Finding Purpose
At the heart of self-discovery lies purpose. Through self-reflection and observation, I unearthed a profound sense of purpose that drives me forward each day. As a Self Discovery Speaker and Author, I am passionate about helping others embark on their own journeys of self-discovery, empowering them to uncover their true identities and live authentically.
The Transformative Power of Self-Reflection
Self-reflection is a powerful tool in the journey of self-discovery. By setting aside time for relaxation, meditation, exercise and other forms of stress release, I gained clarity on my values, beliefs, and aspirations. Journaling, and mindfulness practices have been invaluable in fostering self-awareness and guiding me towards personal growth and fulfillment.
Embracing Change
Self-discovery is an ongoing process of growth and evolution. It requires a willingness to embrace change and step outside of your comfort zone. By remaining open to new experiences and perspectives, you will continue to expand your horizons and uncover new facets of your identity. I know I did.
In conclusion, the journey of self-discovery is a transformative experience that has the power to enrich every aspect of life. If you’re ready to embark on your own journey of self-discovery, I invite you to connect with me at Resilient.
Whether through speaking engagements, podcast interviews, or in my chapter of the Amazon best selling book Shine Your Light, I am here to support and guide you every step of the way.
Together, let’s uncover the true essence of who you are and embark on a journey of personal growth and fulfillment.
Feel free to reach out to me at (214) 681-0169 or via email at resilienttx@gmail.com or ameydeanne@outlook.com. I look forward to connecting with you!